Is it inviting to offer someone a seat and then stand immediately to make it accessible and is it too much too soon if there is a language barrier and cultural chasm between you and the soon-to-be-seated?

We do not ask these questions much ( and not in such a n out of breath manner), if at all…so much the better.

But occasionally trying to fit into someone else’s clothes of sensibility and emotion, can deliver a flash-of-lightening insight into a new world next door.

Or the next door after that.

Now, let us not get too particular about it. Communication quite often works best when it is not so much thought out, as ebbed out.

The flow of happy coincidence and open hands.